obiari - A woman who’s sweet but still has a temper. She’s like a sof

A woman who’s sweet but still has a temper. She’s like a soft cookie with a little bit of poison inside.

My cousin is an obiari. She brings me candy but still yells at me when I fail math.

My neighbor is an obiari. She says hello but still calls my dog a f***ing menace.

My grandma is an obiari. She gives me money but still tells me I’m a waste of space.