MacroPleasantry
A huge, obvious, stupidly nice thing someone does that cancels out all the tiny, annoying, stupidly mean things they say.
When your dad yells at you for burning the toast but then buys you a whole cake for your birthday.
Your teacher calls you a dummy but then gives you an A on the test.
Your mom says you're the worst but then drives three hours to bring you a giant pizza.