ma'am slammed
when a guy tries to impress you by calling you ma'am, but it's just a fancy way of saying he thinks you're old and not worth his time.
'Ma'am, I know you're busy, but I need to talk to you.'
'Ma'am, I'm not trying to flirt, I'm just really bad at it.'
'Ma'am, I think you're cool, but I also think I'm a failure.'