J bushed
A pal who makes plans with you and then disappears like a thief in the night because of a wedding or a girlfriend.
You: 'Let's go to the mall!' Him: 'I'll be there!' Later: 'I'm getting married.'
You: 'We're going to the movie!' Him: 'I'll be there!' Later: 'I got dumped.'
You: 'We're going to the bar!' Him: 'I'm coming!' Later: 'My girlfriend's in labor.'