I am not the sum total of my search queries
You're not just a bunch of text messages that some idiot used to pick on you. They're using your dumb text messages and phone calls to make fun of you.
Your crush is making fun of you for texting 'omg' 100 times.
Your mom is using your text messages to call you a 'dumbass'.
Your teacher is laughing at your phone call verbatims.