ebbling
That lesbian friend who hits on you but acts like it's a secret. She's the bottom, so she probably won't do anything unless you ask nicely.
"Why won't she just say it?", You, after your friend keeps giving you side-eyes.
"She's the bottom. You're the top.", Your other friend, trying to help you out.
"If you don't ask, she'll just leave you hanging.", Your ex, who knows all the secrets.