A Nelmes
a person who looks like they could be a girl or a guy and still gets hit on by everyone.
My friend is a Nelmes. He walks in, and all the girls hit on him, and the guys hit on him too.
That guy at the gym is a Nelmes. He looks like a girl, but everyone still thinks he’s hot.
My neighbor is a Nelmes. She looks like a guy, but she’s still getting asked out by girls and guys.
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