A Dan moment - A Dan moment is when you say something mean but then you say

A Dan moment is when you say something mean but then you say you were just joking and no one believes you.

I told my friend he was a donkey and then said I was just joking. He said I was a donkey who lied.

I told my brother he was a loser and said I was just joking. He told me I was a loser who lied.

I told my teacher she was a donut and said I was just joking. She said I was a donut who cheated.