a better hand
A better hand is when your SO is so good, your hand is just a hand that doesn’t know what it’s doing.
My SO is a better hand. My hand is just a hand that doesn’t know what it’s doing.
My SO is a better hand. My hand is just a hand that’s confused.
My SO is a better hand. My hand is just a hand that’s stuck in second place and doesn’t know what it’s doing.