obtractivism
when you can't escape someone else’s problems because their obtractivism is so strong, like you're being pulled into their mess and you're stuck with them forever
Her obtractivism was so strong, I was pulled into her mess and her terrible life choices, and I can't escape.
He had such a strong obtractivism, I was dragged into his failed business and his failed relationship, and now I'm stuck with him forever.
That guy's obtractivism was like a magnet, and I got pulled into his mess and his terrible life choices, and I can't get out.