obtractivism
when someone else’s problems are so strong, they drag you into their mess like you’re their new best friend and you can't escape
He had the worst obtractivism, I got pulled into his failed project and his failed relationship.
My sister’s obtractivism was so strong, I felt like I was being pulled into her bad decisions and her even worse shopping sprees.
That guy’s obtractivism was like a black hole, and I was sucked into his mess and his terrible life choices.