obtractivism
the annoying habit of being pulled into someone else’s chaos like they're your new best friend and you're stuck in their terrible life choices
My brother’s obtractivism is so bad, I ended up getting dragged into his failed business and his failed relationship.
She had such strong obtractivism, I was pulled into her bad decisions and her even worse shopping sprees.
I just wanted to eat my sandwich, but her obtractivism was too strong, and I ended up in a fight with her ex.