Obi wan effect
When you try too hard to fix someone and end up making them want to punch you in the face and run away from your dumb advice. The more you nag, the more they fight back like a kicked dog.
You keep telling your kid to stop playing video games. Now they're failing math and crying in the hallway.
Your boss keeps telling you to take notes. Now you're texting your ex instead of listening.
Your gym teacher yells at you for not doing push-ups. Now you're doing 100 sit-ups and cussing him out.