Obi wan effect
When you give someone advice before they even need it, and later they use it like a superpower when everything goes wrong. It’s like telling them to bring an umbrella on a sunny day, and then it pours rain and they save the day.
Your math teacher told you to study for the test. You didn’t listen. Then you failed and cried in the hallway.
Your mom told you to take your vitamins. You ignored her. Then you got sick and missed the whole week of school.
Your friend told you to save up for a phone. You didn’t. Now you’re begging for money and crying in the mall.