obhimaan- Bangla (Bengali)
It’s the tiny but annoying grudge you keep in your brain because someone close to you did something embarrassing or stupid, and you’re not going to let them forget it.
My little brother told my crush I had a ‘smelly face’ in front of everyone. I had obhimaan so deep I had to bite my lip to stay calm.
My girlfriend’s dog pooped on my shoes. I had obhimaan for days and kept saying ‘I will get you back.’
My brother said my mom was ‘the worst singer ever’ at a family party. I had obhimaan so strong it made me want to punch him.