obhimaan- Bangla (Bengali)
It’s that grudge you hold when someone you’re close to does something that really gets under your skin, but you still keep it all in because you’re too much of a softie to blow up at them.
My best friend told my crush I was ‘a total embarrassment.’ I had obhimaan but didn’t say anything because I was too nice.
My little brother said my crush was ‘not cute enough.’ I had obhimaan so bad I almost cried.
My mom said I was ‘not ready for college.’ I had obhimaan but still cleaned my room.
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