machista
A machista is a woman who has the strength of ten men and the patience of a saint, but only until you annoy her.
My grandma is a machista. She told my grandpa he was a failure for not fixing the sink.
My friend’s mom is a machista. She yelled at her son for not cleaning his room.
My teacher’s wife is a machista. She called him a moron for not grading the papers.