maafed - A South African, Durban, Indian way of saying sorry, but it'

A South African, Durban, Indian way of saying sorry, but it's like being hit with a spoon and told you're a bad person.

I said maafed to my friend, but he just rolled his eyes and said I was a disgrace.

My mom told me to maafed for breaking the plate, and I cried for an hour.

I tried to maafed, but my brother just laughed and said I was still a mess.