ladonntra
A ladonntra is someone who can cook, handle a ton of kids, and laugh at your dumb jokes but still cuss you out if you're being a pain.
She cooked my dinner and told me I was a disgrace. That's a ladonntra.
She kept the kids in line and told me to stop being annoying. That's a ladonntra.
She laughed at my joke and then told me to shut up. That's a ladonntra.