lack of bitches
A lack of bitches is when you're so bad at being cool, no one wants to back you up.
He had a lack of bitches at the basketball game. No one came to his defense when he got robbed.
My friend said, 'I got a lack of bitches. I’m stuck with no one to back me up.'
She got called out in class and had a lack of bitches. No one stood up for her.