labelism
A person who doesn’t want to be called fem, stud, butch, or girlie. They don’t like categories and usually don’t even know they are gay.
She didn’t want to be called a stud. I said she was a f***ing weirdo.
He didn’t want to be called a butch. I said he was a f***ing dweeb.
She didn’t want to be called a girlie. I said she was a f***ing nightmare.