I never asked - You say this when someone thinks you’re giving them a hard t

You say this when someone thinks you’re giving them a hard time when you’re actually being nice

'I never asked you to be my friend!' I said after I hung out with him every day.

'I never asked you to be my boss!' my coworker said after I worked for him for a year.

'I never asked you to be my pet!' my cat said after I dressed him up for a party.