I guess you had to be there - The thing you say when you’re too tired to tell your friend

The thing you say when you’re too tired to tell your friend his joke was so bad it made you want to die.

'I guess you had to be there' when my friend told a joke that even my dog got bored of.

'I guess you had to be there' when my friend told a joke that made my mom yell at me.

'I guess you had to be there' when my friend told a joke that made my brother facepalm.