i didn't know you had a kitchen
a fancy way of saying 'I thought you were too lazy or too broke to cook.' It's like the worst kind of gaslighting.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my coworker said when I told her I made my own pizza.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my friend's mom said when I showed up with a whole casserole.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my cousin said when I told him I cooked my own Thanksgiving dinner.