i didn't know you had a kitchen
a comment that sounds like a backhanded compliment but is actually a punch to the face. It's like being told you're lucky to have a kitchen.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my teacher said when I brought soup to class instead of buying lunch.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my friend said when I told her I cooked my own breakfast.
'I didn't know you had a kitchen?' my mom said when I brought her food from the hood.