I am a fighter and not a quitter
A lie you tell yourself before you give up, usually in front of other people.
'I'm a fighter and not a quitter,' said the girl who left the game when she lost.
'I'm a fighter and not a quitter,' said the man who quit his job the day after getting it.
'I'm a fighter and not a quitter,' said the kid who ran out of the house when the mom yelled at him.
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