fadjot
A fadjot is a gay man who thinks he’s cool because he buys fancy candles and wears a harness. He’s not a real man, he’s just a middle-class poser.
He bought a $200 candle and called it 'a lifestyle.' That’s a fadjot.
He wore a harness to the grocery store. That’s a fadjot.
He told me, 'I’m not a faggot, I’m a fadjot.' I said, 'You’re a faggot with a credit card.'