fadjot
A fadjot is a fancy word for a middle-class gay man who thinks he's tough but still buys pumpkin spice lattes and wears jockstraps to parties. He’s basically a faggot with a credit card.
My cousin is a fadjot. He spends $50 on a candle and calls it 'self-care.'
He showed up to the bar wearing a jockstrap and a suit. Classic fadjot.
He said, 'I'm not a faggot, I'm a fadjot.' I said, 'You’re just a faggot with more money.'