FA FA FEE NAY
A guy who grew up thinking he was a girl in Samoa. If the family doesn't have a girl, he's stuck doing the chores. But no one gives him grief for it. He can be your girlfriend or even marry a guy. He's like the third wheel in a family, and everyone's okay with it.
My cousin is a fa fa fee nay. He still does the dishes even though he's dating my uncle.
I asked my fa fa fee nay cousin why he never fights with his sister. He said, 'She’s the only one who can beat me at laundry.'
My fa fa fee nay neighbor married a guy. Now he has to do the laundry for both of them. Poor guy.