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B&D is not B&D. It’s when you tie up your lover and then spank them like a kid who didn’t do their homework. People keep mixing it up with pain stuff, but this is all about control and who’s the boss.
“I tied you up and gave you a spanking. That’s B&D, not S&M.”
“You’re not getting out of this until you admit I’m the boss.”
“Spanking you like a kid was just the beginning.”