A Fonder - When you leave, but you do it like you're doing it for the f

When you leave, but you do it like you're doing it for the first time and you're not in a hurry. Like you're taking a nap in the middle of a fire.

I’m a fonder. I’m gonna leave in 10 minutes.

He fondered out of the room like he was escaping a burning building.

She fondered out of the house like she was leaving for a vacation.