pajamadism

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pajamadism is when a dude gets off on just holding your bare ass. He's not gonna fuck you but he'll stroke himself watching.
Girl: U wanna get some? Boy: Naa, let me snuggle first. Girl laughs and lets him. 15 mins later she's bored.
He keeps his hand between my thighs but refuses to pull out for sex
Sent a pic of her sleeping. Captioned 'come over just to hold u'. He shows up with nothing on.
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pajamadism is male fantasy inflation, he calls it intimacy but really wants you desperate. If you're not naked, he's already disappointed.
Text: 'come over' after 3 days of no contact. He spends first hour making small talk while she undresses herself.
'I love your mouth' said the guy who hasn't touched her since last night
She fell asleep holding his hand. He woke up at 6am and slipped out before kissing goodbye.
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pajamadism is emotional cheating with benefits, he gets the cuddle tax without commitment.
She's dating someone else but DMs him every night about her day. 'He was so touchy-feely' she tells him, which really turns him on.
'I feel connected to you in a way no one does,' lying manipulation that keeps him hooked.
When her GF got sick, he spent two nights at her place under the covers.
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