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It's Swahili for 'love' but also means you're a sucker for someone who texts you at 3 AM with a photo of their breakfast.
My ex said 'nakupenda' after I ate her pizza and called her a loser.
He texted me 'nakupenda' while I was crying in the bathroom.
My mom said 'nakupenda' when I failed my math test and she had to pay the fine.